I am so sorry I missed the cousins party AGAIN this year. Suzanne's comments reminded me that a few years ago my then husband attended a reunion and his comments to his family and friends was "I cannot believe how 'clean-cut' the WHOLE family is and how much love and closeness they share. It has always been a privilege to belong to such a wonderful family who is full of concern for each other!  I am sure my wonderful aunts Cumora and Geniveve represented the Gardner clan with love, class and grace. I would have loved to see everybody but I know Diane represented the Mallory's. Isn't she beautiful?? And, she has more than enough energy for both of us. I love her and all my Gardner family so much.